How Do You Define Value In Your Life? - Love Bombs 27

July 31st, 2014

We spend our whole lives busying ourselves with tasks that we categorize as worthwhile/valuable or things that we feel are frivolous and without real value for this or that reason.  I find that many of the things I put in the frivolous category are the things I find fun and I see "work" as the valuable stuff. So I am always downgrading my joy.  This week Dave and I talk about how we spend our time and how we allow ourselves to find value in what we enjoy.

What do you value in your life and how do you define it?

P.S.  This is the garden we mentioned in the podcast:


We Met Online 4 Years Ago and We’re Just Getting Started - Love Bombs 26

July 24th, 2014

Dave and I have been together 4 years this month.  We met online and had no idea what was in store for us.  Today we talk about where we each were when we met, what kind of expectations we had and what we have gotten out of the deal so far.

Every relationship should be a learning experience and boy have we learned a lot! What has your last relationship taught you?



What Are You So Afraid Of? - Love Bombs 25

July 18th, 2014

I don't know about you but I am really tired of being afraid.  Being afraid stops me from doing all kinds of amazing things things I know on some level I am capable of.  This week we talk about fear and discuss how it may not be what is appears to be.  There are some great things we can accomplish if we learn to see our fears and anxieties in a whole new way. We have more control of it then we think.

What are you afraid of?


The Never Ending Project - Love Bombs 24

July 10th, 2014

So are you the kind of person that is kind of free flowing in your deadlines or do you need a concrete end date?  Well Dave and I are at opposite ends of the spectrum on this and well we just bought a hilarity will ensue when house projects arise.

On this weeks Love Bombs we talk about our project expectations and styles and lobby for why our way is the best way.  (Vote team Cija!)  But I like to keep an open mind about this things and I might be able to be swayed.  You'll have to listen to find out.

What kind of project endurance do you have?


Why is it Hard For You to Dream? -PART 2 Love Bombs 23

July 3rd, 2014

Last week we started the conversation about allowing yourself to dream and how that plays out in your relationship.  We continue the conversation this week and see if Cija is really having a mid-life crisis or mid-life chrysalis. 

How do you identify who you are when people ask you and it that truly who you are?